Monday, January 24, 2011

A quiet birthday celebration


Last Saturday evening, we had a quiet celebration for Jen, my buddy’s birthday, just the three of us. I cooked a simple dinner for her. I made pork burger ciabatta, roasted butternut squash and a mixed salad with grilled zuchinni and capsicums. I made a heart-shape pavlova topped with strawberries, blueberries, raspberries and kiwi for dessert.  

While writing this post, I recalled one of our wonderful moments spent together. It was in Singapore many years ago. About a year after Jen's hubby, Eric passed away, we took her for a holiday there. I remembered we ate caviar and drink champagne.  We had such a good time together, lots of fun, food and laughter.  While my hubby, Stitch was out for business meeting during the day, the both us went shopping in Orchard Road and spend hours in Borders browsing through books.  At that time, we do not have a "Borders" in Kuala Lumpur so it was a treat.  One evening, after we returned to the hotel from our shopping spree, Stitch surprised Jen with a lovely birthday gift, a blue sapphire set of earrings with a matching pendant. It put a big smile on her face. It is a nice feeling for us to see her smile again.

Jen and I are very close as sister in laws.  We stayed together for eight years before we moved to our own apartments which was next to each other.  After our late hubbies passed away, we became even closer since we were in the same boat.  There is nothing under the sun that the two of us cannot talk to each other. Of course, we had our differences and get annoyed with each other now and then but we will always straighten things out and move on.  I think that is what good friends do, they let us be us and still love us.

A few years ago, Jen and I joined a social dancing class together. We were partners. I learnt the men’s steps while she, the lady’s.  We chat and laugh a lot together during the classes. I guess our instructor got curious about us. One day after the class, he asked if we were sisters.  Jen cheekily answered him, “No, we are lovers!”  OMG!! You should have seen the expression on the face of our instructor.  He was dumb founded for a minute with his eyes and mouth wide open!! LOL! Then,  Jen and I broke out laughing.  Only then he realise it was a just joke and he laughed together with us. That is how crazy the two of us can be when we are together.

I did not take pictures of the meal but I took a picture of the pavlova I made for Jen in place of a birthday cake.  We love pavlova, it is a healthy dessert and I love how I can decorate it with all kinds of my favorite fruits!  The recipe was posted earlier. 


Recipe: 

Pictures speak a thousand words:




38 comments:

  1. Happy Birthday to Jen:) It's nice to have someone to share your interests with, makes the laughter more fun and the sadness in life lighter. I have always been curious about pavlova and hope to bake this some day, yours looked so gorgeous! Hope you have a wonderful day.

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  2. you and jen actually look quite alike, it's no surprise that your instructor thought both of you are sisters. It's always a blessing to have someone so close that we can talk to and sharing your hearts together. Your pavlova looks very attractive, i still haventt got a chance yet to eat a pavlova.

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  3. Happiest Birthday to Jen. What a gorgeous pavlova you made for a special friend. There is something so very touching to hear stories about others and their experiences with their best friends joining them through many of life's journeys. Thank you for sharing a little with us.

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  4. It's really great to have such strong friendship :) I'm sure Jen loved that little birthday celebration :) and you made a really wonderful cake..

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  5. Happy birthday to your friend Jen! You are lucky to have so many great and close friends. Your pavlova looks beautiful. I just discovered pavlova this year and am in love with it. It's such a delicious dessert! Hope you had a great weekend.

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  6. It is great having a friend like that, sadly my very best friend is in S.Africa, we do talk often but it is not the same as being together. Happy Birthday to Jen. Diane

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  7. happy birthday.. dropby here.. wonder out. you are homecook chef too.. maybe someday steal your recipe and cook for my family.. hehe

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  8. Happy birthday to Jen and the dessert looks beautiful.

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  9. The pavlova looks absolutely beautiful. Happy birthday to Jen!

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  10. What a pretty cake! Almost too pretty to eat!

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  11. Happy b-day! How lovely to have friends like this - or rather, sisters!

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  12. That's a gorgeous cake, but it's not as beautiful as your friendship. You're both very lucky!

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  13. That's a very pretty pavlova (one of my fave cakes) and what's even more beautiful is your sisterhood and friendship. Happy Birthday to Jen! :)

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  14. what a lovely blog -- and filled with recipes that i'd love to try!! so glad i visited -- and thanks so much for your kind comment over at my place~

    p.s. happy birthday to your friend - how lucky is she to have such a nice friend who creates this lovely dessert!

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  15. Happy birth day to Jen. It is nice to have good friends share everything in the life.

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  16. There are so many beautiful memories in this post! Happy birthday to Jen. I know you made it a beautiful one. That pavlova is gorgeous!

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  17. Great looking pav, you make a kiwi homesick.

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  18. Happy Birthday to Jen...and she is so lucky to have a friend like you...beautiful pavlova :-)

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  19. Happy birthday to Jen,dessert looks delicious.

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  20. I really enjoyed the story. And it really isnt a friendship without the annoyancea and quarrels and the "not talk to each other for days" on end. Thats a very beautiful pavlova too! Happy Birthday Jen!

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  21. Jeanie: Thanks and you too have a wonderful week.

    Lena: No we don't, I am more prettier! LOL! (just kidding). On a on serious note, a lot of people tell me that too.

    Bridgett: You are most welcome.

    Medeja: She did, this is what she said to me. As we grow older, we like simplicity and peace. She enjoyed the quiet celebration.

    lequan: I discovered the pavlova on Independence day last year. My friend baked one with the color of the American flag and it was so awesome! He also bakes other delicious cake. He is not only a fantastic baker, he cooks very well too!

    Diane: Having all my close friends near to me is a blessing. I have a very close friend living in Australia. We were kindergarden classmates. For the past few years, we meet up once again and we enjoyed our time together very much.

    Nikel: No need to steal :D I would love for you to use them.

    Belinda, Sensible Vegetarian, Rachel, manju, Life for Beginners, Swathi, Juliana, Joanne, Pushpa, choi yen: Thanks so much for your visits and leave kind words. I really appreciate it.

    Amanda: You are welcome and thanks for dropping by.

    crustabakes: Thanks. You are right, true friends are those who dare to annoy you and quarrel with you because they know you will not love them less. They are also the ones who will be honest with you and put you back on track. It is REAL!

    To all my dear friends: On behalf of Jen, I thank you all for your birthday wishes.

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  22. agree with Lena that you and Jen look alike. :)

    happy belated birthday, Jen!! may the coming year be the best in terms of health, happinesss and wealth.

    xoxo

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  23. How very wonderful to have such a friend! And you both obviously tereasure the love as you should. The pavlova is the proof!

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  24. That looks soooo gorgeous..
    Happy Birthday!

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  25. What a glorious dessert for a birthday. Your friend must have been thrilled. I know I would be. I hope you have a great day. Blessings...Mary

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  26. That is a GORGEOUS cake! I've never tried pavlova but it looks delicious! It was hilarious reading about her telling your instructor you were lovers LOL. It's great to have crazy times with your best girlfriends like that.

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  27. By the way, you two look like sisters!

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  28. Happy Birthday to Jen:) To cook and share a meal with some your love is the most special and beautiful thing to do. Love you post!

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  29. i love that u joined together to take dance classes, that would be so much fun. its beautiful to hear that you two are quite close, close enough to consider each other sisters!! and I totally agree with the above comments that you two even look alike, you share some similarities and resemblances! so pretty :)

    and happy birthday to Jen btw!! :)

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  30. Barton: I am sorry I made you homesick. Thanks for your comment and nice meeting you:D

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  31. Celine, Rosemary, Dimah, Mary, Sharon, Kankana, Kelsey: Thanks for your comments, they mean a lot to me. Now I have to believe that Jen and I looks like sister rather than lovers! LOL! Wishing you all a wonderful week. HUGS!!

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  32. Wow - what a great-looking cake! It looks like it was a very happy birthday for everyone involved!

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  33. oh such a gorgeous b'day cake happy b'day to you :) and thanks for stopping by my blog and for ur kind words of appreciation :)

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  34. So sweeeet! It may have been a quiet celebration, but no doubt it was a very special one with a cake as lovely as that. Love all the fruit on it.

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  35. Rich, Ananda, Carolyn: Thanks for your visit and hope to see you guys agains soon. You all have a nice blog and I enjoyed myself browsing the lovely photos and reading some of the recipes.

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  36. Hi All, Thank you for all the birthday wishes. :) I love everything my Quay Po sis in law makes for me cos it's a double dose of love. Hope to be able to laugh with her for many more years! Only problem when visiting her is that I put on pounds. She has really turned out to be a GREAT cook for someone who don't like to cook in the past.

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  37. happy belated birthday to your friend Jen. she's a lucky girl having you make a pavlova as a birthday cake. I love this type of cake and yours looks delicious.

    thanks for sharing, hope you'll have a wonderful weekend

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