Wednesday, August 24, 2011

A famous Ipoh Cantonese dish from an “Iron” lady

Although I am Hakka but I am more Cantonese because my mum is Cantonese. Since I am not very close with my Dad and my Dad's side of the family, I really don’t know much about the Hakka heritage. I consider myself more Cantonese than Hakka. The Cantonese dish that I am going to introduce to you brings back childhood memories and reminds me of the hardship my mum had gone through raising me alone after my Dad had lost all his fortune through gambling. From a rich man’s wife, my mum had to go to work as a factory worker peeling prawns.  She earned very little at the factory so after work, she had to go wash clothes for our neighbors to earn more to make ends meet. From staying in a bungalow with a maid to not able to afford even to rent a room, mum and I had to share a room on the first floor of a shop lot with another lady.  We had no bed or wardrobe. We shared a cheap thin mattress on the floor and we hung our clothes on a clothes rack and cover them with a piece of cloth. Yes, we have gone from rich to rags! Although we were poor, my mum ensured that I ate well. Every morning she waked up in the wee hours to cook lunch for me. She cooked a simple dish everyday and left it in the kitchen food cabinet (we did not have a fridge) so that when I returned from school, I had food to eat. Then on my birthday, she always cooked a special dish and it was clay pot chicken rice and she did that for many years. She could not afford to buy chicken but one of her good friend was a restaurant owner and he was a kind and generous man. He used to give my mum chicken meat now and then. Since today is my birthday,  I thought it is very meaningful to share my mum’s claypot chicken rice recipe with you all. Each time when I eat this dish now, it reminded me what a strong person my mum is. During those days when we were down and out, she had never whined about having to work hard for little money or felt ashamed of being poor. It was also during that time of difficulty that she saw who were her true friends. Many rich aunties that my mum used to play mahjong with all avoided her the moment they knew that my Dad had lost his wealth. I guess they were afraid that we would borrow money from them. That did not bother my mum at all. She thought it was a blessing in disguise. She said there is no loss in losing fair weather friends. She is right, we do not need enemies when we had friends like these. My mum was worried that I could not handle the big change in our life style, so she continuously reminded me that no one could look down on us as long as we do not look down on ourselves. When time were too tough she said to me, “Don’t give in for no matter how tough the time might be, it will pass, for everything will pass, good or bad”. She is absolutely right! Nowadays, when time gets really tough, I will say to myself the three magic words, “It will pass!” and I move on. Oh yes, I moved on for 56 years! I hope I will move on for a while more. LOL! 


Last Saturday, my Quay Lo gathered family and good friends to a really nice fine dining restaurant in Kuala Lumpur to have an early celebration of my 56th birthday.  He personally selected food and the wine. The food was delicious and the wine were paired so well with the food! I enjoyed myself very much and I am very grateful for all the effort my Quay Lo put in to make this an enjoyable and memorable evening for me and our guests. Darling, YOU ARE THE BEST!! Hehe HUGS!  I would like to thank everyone who took time from your busy schedule to join me in the celebration. I had a GREAT time and hope you all did too!! HUGS and KISSES to you all.  I would like to share my joy with all my readers and blogger friends too.


A birthday card from all


The hand-picked restaurant by my Quay Lo


 The hand-picked Menu for the dinner by my Quay Lo

My family and good friends who joined me
In his pic, top: our good friend - Diana, 
center: our best of pals - Brad & Andrea, 
bottom: Diana's hubby John

In this pic, from top: me and my son, Nick, 
Centre: Me and my son's lovely girlfriend - Lehbin, 
Bottom: me and my son Nick

In this pic, left: my godson in law- Valen, my god daughter - Cheryl
My sister in law - Jennifer, right: our good friend - Fernand, his daughter - Efa
and my best friend - Peng

In this pic, top: Andrea and my mum
center: Fernand and his daughter - Efa
bottom: my niece, Christine and boyfriend - Sim

In this pic, top: my godson - Darryl and girlfriend - Venice
center: my sister in law Jenny and my niece Christine
bottom: my son Nick and girlfriend - Lehbin



Hand picked Birthday cake by my Quay Lo


Chocolate cake with salted caramel served with vanilla ice cream
The American Style!


"Looking through the Glasses" taken by my son, Nick
I love this photo!

My BEST BIRTHDAY GIFT - 
MY QUAY LO!!

My advance birthday party is over but my birthday starts now. The time now is 0001. I am not sure what I am going do today but I will share with you in my next post if I did something interesting. First, I guess I go and have a good sleep but before that here is my mum's clay pot chicken rice recipe which I am eager to share with you. This is a famous dish from Ipoh, Perak that means a lot to me and I already told you why. 

Ipoh claypot chicken rice




Ingredients:
1 cup fragrant rice
250 gm chicken breast and drumsticks
ginger, julienned, to taste
water, to cook rice

To marinade the chicken meat:
1 tbs light soy sauce
1 tsp dark soy sauce
1 tbs oysters sauce
1 tbs sesame oil
1/4 tsp sugar
1/4 tsp cornflour
1 tbs Shaoxing wine
a pinch of white pepper
a pinch of salt


Method:
Chop chicken into smaller pieces. Marinade the chicken for 1 hour. Measurement of water for the rice is ¾ cup water for 1 cup rice. Transfer rice and water into a large, deep bowl. Steam in a wok over high heat for about 20 minutes, covered, or until the water in the bowl dries up. Add chicken together with the marinade and sprinkle ginger on top. Continue to cook for 20 minutes, covered. Turn off the heat, let chicken and rice sit in the wok for another 10 minutes. Serve hot.


I am submitting this post to Heritage Food Trail hosted by Edith of Precious Moment.


AND


I am submitting this post to Muhibbah Monday Round 14 hosted by Suresh of 3 Hungry Tummies

75 comments:

  1. It looks like fun was had by all :) Happy Birthday my friend

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  2. Happy birthday and super picture collages.

    Greetings,
    Filip

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  3. Tough Mum makes tough Quay Po!
    Happy Birthday ya!

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  4. Happy Birthday!! Lovely photos collection!

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  5. Happy Happy Birthday to YOU!!

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  6. Happy Birthday!!!! Thanks for sharing your joy with us. Your Quay Lo is such a sweet man.

    A lovely post on your childhood years, reminded me on that chicken drum stick that I usually had during my birthday.

    Thanks for joining Heritage Food Trail.

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  7. A well deserved birthday party! Happy belated birthday! Your mum now looks like the elegant lady she was meant to be .... what a lady! I bow to her independence and positive attitude and strong will ... a lot like my mum. A lot like you. Best mums in the world!

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  8. What a great story to a simple yet wholesome dish. Love claypot chicken rice and love it even more now after reading the story behind the dish. You are one lucky woman, with such a great mum and great family! Happy Birthday to you! Hugs and Kisses from Boston!

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  9. Happy early birthday! Great family photos!

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  10. Happy Birthday! How lovely that your Quay Lo organised the party, food and cake. You are so loved by your family and friends. Enjoy the rest of your celebrations.

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  11. Happy birthday and thanks for sharing all the gorgeous photos.

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  12. Happy birthday! :) Love the photos of your family & friends

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  13. Happy Birthday Quaypo! Birthday should eat long noodles but since Chicken Claypot rice is your specialty, enjoy it! But have you tried Kampar Chicken Rice? May Good Health and happiness be with you at all times!

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  14. Happy Birthday to you and many happy returns of the day! Love your post so much. And I love claypot chicken rice! Especially love reading the story about how your mum pulled through. Your mum still knows how to make up and dress up so well!

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  15. Happy bday, dear! Your post is so touching. OMG, we share quite a few similarities. My parents went from riches to rags too but was due to bankuptcy in business & not gambling. My mum was strong. Life was really tough for them & I understood every word you've described here. Thks for sharing!

    I've posted the Play The 7 Links Challenge! Love the shots! Didn't know you've il Lido there too. I'd written a post on it too :)

    Veron, may happiness surrounds u always!

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  16. What a great way to celebrate birthday.Hope you stay happy and healthy and enjoy your fantastic family and we keep enjoyining your fabulous blog:)

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  17. Hi!! GReetings from Malaysia. I am a true Hakka woman married to a Foochow man. Now I have mixture of both food heritage in my cooking. Never like soup, but after I married, I love cooking and having soups in my meals. Lol!

    Today is my birthday too, so Happy Birthday to you and me! You have wonderful day there.

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  18. Happy Birthday to you, thanks for sharing all the lovely pictures. And the delicious claypot chicken rice, yum yum

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  19. Wishing you a wonderful birthday!

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  20. am I late? Happy Birthday to the Lady :)

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  21. Many Happy Returns of the Day. Nin nin yau kum yet, seoi seoi yau kum chiew. "Year year got today age age got this moment"

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  22. Happy Belated Birthday to you. It is so sweet of you to say your Quay Lo is your best present. He indeed is. Love his million dollars smile.

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  23. Happy Birthday!! It looks like you, your friends and family had a wonderful time...
    Eftychia from: http://www.dreamofcakes.net
    Dream of Cakes blog.

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  24. Happy Birthday !! I nearly cried when I read about your past. Your mum is a strong lady ! She is right. Good or bad, it will past !

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  25. Happy birthday Veron! Gosh, you don't look a year older than 40! You have maintained yourself very well!
    Thanks for sharing your childhood and how your mum encouraged you. It's so heart-warming to learn this.
    The claypot chicken rice looked really good! This is one dish that I've yet to attempt, for fear that my rice will turn "chao ta"!

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  26. Happy Belated Birthday!! Your real life experience is just like a sad drama that can only be seen in tv.. But chinese said 'bitter came first then sweetness will follow up'. Every mother in this world is the greatest.

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  27. Happy Birthday! What a fantastic birthday party! I love claypot rice! I have the similiar rich to rags story and similiar love leaning toward Cantonese!

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  28. Happy birthday! Sake hands , same birthday as my 10 year old son. I'll surely remember your birthday every year.

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  29. I am also Hakka and I am also more Cantonese ^_^

    We speak Cantonese at home and now my son of 4-year-old is very fluent in Cantonese, whenever he follows my parents go out, people will look at him because in Singapore, not many people know Cantonese, let alone a 4-year-old kid ^_^

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  30. I am even more excited than you to be able to have your mum's claypot chicken rice recipe! mum's recipes are always the best!

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  31. Happy birthday to you!! And congratulations to your mom for being an awesome mom and raising an awesome woman. Your mom is kick-ass, and so is this clay pot. I am so hungry right now.

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  32. Happy happy birthday! What a wonderful celebration! You are blessed to be enveloped by true love...from your mom to your dear husband and son/family and friends. Your sweet mother was a truly selfless while raising you...such a touching story.

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  33. i know sometimes i'm always late to make a comment but i must make sure that i come by today to wish you happy birthday! " A Very HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!" hey Veron, you said you sometimes very moong cha cha, are you sure you're 56 and not 36? you look stunning at your age!! you still have the body of a 26 and that sexy smile of a 36 **HUGS** a hug for your mom..all mums are the greatest, even if they dont eat, they make sure we dont starve, another hug for you..Wishing you a joyous and fun day..not just today but everyday! Will give you a real hug when i see you one day!!

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  34. This just might be my favorite post for the week. I love the story of growing up with your mom. What a great birthday celebration! Enjoy your chicken and rice, it looks delicious. Happy Birthday!!

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  35. CONGRATULATIONS, VERON! Happy Birthday to you. Wow, what a grand birthday party you had there. Your smile says it all, birhtday girl. Enjoy & have lots of food & fun! ((hugs))
    Best wishes,
    Kristy

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  36. Happy Belated Birthday! Love your story. I remember one time my friend asked me how I felt growing poor in KL. I told her I didn't know I was "poor" because everyone in my village was the same! LOL!!!

    Love your claypot chicken. I guess it's time to go shopping!!

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  37. Your mom is an amazing woman! That story was so touching, thanks so much for sharing it and that amazing recipe with us :) It looks like your birthday was a fantastic time!

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  38. Happy Birthday! What a great party!

    Mothers are always "strong" because they protect their children. This claypot rice dish is always a great classic. Yum!

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  39. Veronica...HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you and many more to come :) Can see that you had a wonderful birthday dinner with close friends and family. Thank you so much for sharing with us your birthday party and this is a lovely post...kiss and hug your Momsie for me. She is the ' wai tai Mummy ' and despite the hardship, she make sure you have the best food ! Mom's love is the best love in the world. Thank you for sharing this full of sentiment claypot rice with us :)

    BIRTHDAY HUG AND MUAXS !
    Elin

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  40. Happy birthday love celebration and pictures

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  41. "Happy Birthday to U, Happy Birthday to U, Happy Birthday to Uuuuu.....Happy Birthday to U!!!"
    Wish you all the best in everything and stay beautiful always!!..."hugs"!!

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  42. Happy Birthday Quay Po - what a beautiful tribute to your mother. She is truly a wise woman to be admired! The chicken in a clay pot sounds delicious and I'm sure every bite brings memories....

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  43. hi quay poh, many thanks for your visit. my timing if like perfect, when i visited your first post its your birthday celebration time.. many happy returns, happy belated birthday to you. i am glad we met in cyber here.
    its such a dear thing to do chicken rice, to remember your very couragous mom, she has great strength and willpower.

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  44. Happy belated Birthday! You're so blessed to have so many loving people celebrating with you and thanks so much for participating in Merdeka Open House.

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  45. Happy belated birthday!! 56, u kidding me?? That's not ur real age, right??

    I'm touched by ur story and i really salute ur mom for being touch enough during those hard time.

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  46. Happy Birthday! What a wonderful family you have, and you're so lucky to have a husband who adores and spoils you. Thanks for sharing your pictures, including the funny birthday card...I love it!

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  47. Happy Birthday to you and what a fabulous time you had.

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  48. Hi Veronica-This is my third try. Every time I'm ready to send comment, I have to sign in each time with Google, than I click back, and comment is gone...so irritating. Signing in with firefox now!

    I loved reading your touching post about your childhood and your amazing mom, how she raised you by herself and provided for you...even with your special clay-pot chicken, which look yummy!

    Such a beautiful birthday celebration with your family, and friends. Your husban is a "gem" going all out to make this happen for you in a special Italian restaurant.
    Love your cute/funny B-card, and the menu!
    You are so blessed!
    HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
    Hugs, and kisses!
    Elisabeth

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  49. Happy Birthday! Your celebration looks fun, you have a great family. :) I'm full of admiration for your mother, she is a strong and capable woman! I'm an Ipoh-girl and claypot chicken rice is one of my fav food too. Have you tried Kampar's claypot chicken rice back in the 60's/70's?

    Thanks for visiting my blog. I'm too busy cleaning now to blog about the reno but it's completed. :)

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  50. So many beautiful photos, a wonderful celebration, and a delicious dish :)

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  51. Happy Birthday to you Veron:D and may you have many more to wonderful birthdays like this....beautiful post! Lovely looking food enjoyed with loving company:)

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  52. Happy Belated Birthday to you Veron! May you always look young and pretty!

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  53. Happy Belated Birthday! What a happy birthday celebration. Your claypot chicken rice looks really good! Your mom reminds me of my mom, strong yet gentle. We had almost nothing, but we have everything!
    Have a lovely weekend!

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  54. Happy Belated Birthday QP!!

    Looks likea fabulous time at Il Lido.. there is nothing like a beautiful gathering of family & friends to celebrate a special day with you...

    Stay beautiful in and out always :D

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  55. happy belated birthday! It looks like you had a fabulous dinner to celebrate and had so many people you love around you! That makes me so happy.

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  56. @All My Dear Friends
    Many thanks for the birthday greetings! You guys RAWK!! LOTS OF LOVE FROM QUAY PO XOXO!!

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  57. Wow!!! Good looks certainly run in your family...and class too.

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  58. Yesterday I made your claypot rice & OMG.. it was soo delicious , even my quay lou hubby loves it. Thanks for sharing your yummy recipes.

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  59. @David,@That Girl, @Filip, @Ah Tee, @Ah Tze, @Anncoo, @yummychunklet, @charmaine, @yummylittlecooks, @Elie, @Christine, @Dzoli, @Bellygoodcooking, @Veggie girl, @Amelia, @Kian Fai, @Bananaz, @eftychia, @Mary, @Food Dreams, @ muppy, @Jeannie, @Sonia, @Food Diva, @little corner of mine, @babe_inKL, @Ann, @Tigger mum, @Torviewtoronto
    Thanks a million for the birthday greetings and your comments. HUGS!

    @edith
    Regarding the drum stick, I used to keep the drum stick for my son when he was little too:D

    @Ping,
    All Mums are the BEST!

    @Reese
    Hugs and kisses to you too!

    @Mel
    Oh yes I have tried the Kampar Chicken rice but that was many years ago.

    @Carolyn
    My mum not only takes good care of her health but also her looks.

    @Shirley
    I am sure you know what it is like to go from rich to rags. Aren't we lucky to have tough mums? Oh I saw your post on il Lido Singapore. Great review. Also thanks for joining in the fun doing the 7 links challenge. I got to check them all out.

    @Rose
    Happy belated birthday! I should have wish you sooner.

    @Sheoh Yan
    You are not the first one to like my Quay Lo's smile, a lot of people told him that he got that million dollars smile.. hehe

    @mNhL
    I am sorry my story made you sad. Glad you agree with my mum's philosophy. It is truly a good one.

    @Passionate about Baking
    Try this recipe and don't worry about the rice turn chao ta. Mark my words, that won't happen:D

    @JaneTan
    Yup, Agreed. All Mums are the greatest!

    @Desperatehousewife
    So we were in the same boat before:D

    @i-ilostinausten
    Belated Happy birthday to your son.

    @neyeeloh
    Kids learn fast. They are amazing.

    @Shu Han
    Yes, we have to hold on to their recipes.

    @Belinda
    I want to tell my mum what you said but don't know how to translate kick ass into cantonese hehe

    @Lizzy
    I believe any mum in her situation will do the same.

    @Lena
    Please don't give me so many HIGH HATS in one go, I may be suffocated by them. hehehe but I love what you said. Thanks my dear and thanks for the Hugs. I really hope to meet you in person to get the real hug from you.

    @Kristy, @Reese
    HUGS to you too.

    @Parsley Sage, @Zoe, @Ann, @cookingvarieties
    Yes all mums are angels send from heaven.

    @Elin
    I gave my mum a hug and told her it was from you. She ask me to send you her hugs back. Me too my hugs to you and MUAX MUAX!!

    @Yee Er
    Yes I am REALLY 56:D Wait till you see me without make up, you will not believe I am 56 but and think I am 65! hehe

    @Elisabeth
    I am sorry you had difficulties posting your comment. I encountered that with some blogs I visited and don't understand it. Thanks for not giving up and get your comment posted successfully. It means a lot to me. Hugs and kisses.

    @lifeisfull
    Yes, I love the Kampar chicken rice. It was many years ago I had that.

    @kitchen flavors
    You have spoken my thoughts.

    @Joanne
    Makes me happy too!

    @suituapui
    Thanks for the compliments.

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  60. I love beautiful family photos, happy well-deserved vacation for its beautiful recipes, hugs.

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  61. OH MY GOSH Veronica! I can't believe I missed your birthday and that I'm even so late. :( I'm so sorry! SO SO happy to see that you had such a wonderful celebration with all your friends and family. Thank you for sharing your beautiful day with us. Gary is such a sweet sweet husband for putting together such a gorgeous birthday party for you. The menu sounded awesome, but I'm sure you'd agree with me 100% that the guests and and family were what really made this day special. You are very blessed with such wonderful friends and family, my dear. And may I also say, you are looking mighty hot for 56! :D Thank you for sharing your story in the beginning of this post with us. Your Mom is truly a very strong woman. By the way, she's looking really great in all her pictures here! I'm so ashamed that I'm so late to read this post. Happy belated birthday my dear friend! May you have many many more as joyful and blessed as this one. Love your Mom's claypot chicken rice! thank you for sharing everything in this post with us. Gary (Quay Lo) if you're reading, two thumbs up, my friend. Way to treat a woman right!

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  62. aww I really love the story of your mother, it strikes a chord in the heart :) and I think simple home cook food is the best when it is made with love!

    http://thamjiak.com

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  63. @Rosita
    HUGS

    @LeQuan
    Yes, you did miss my birthday. How can you? hehe just kidding! Well you are here now. Better late than never right? I am so happy that you are connected again!

    @rokh
    Thanks for your visit and appreciate that take time to leave your comment. I could not agree with you more:D

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  64. oh no! i missed your birthday too!!!!!! by two solid weeks *bangs wall*

    your story really touches my heart. your mum's such a strong woman. give her a hug for me!

    may you get prettier and prettier every year!!!

    definitely going to try out this recipe, with my favorite "lup cheong" chinese sausages and "ham yu" salted fish as well!

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  65. @Alan
    I gave a hug to my mum for you and show her your blog. She ask me to tell you that she thinks your bakes are all beautiful and thank you for the hug. Aiyah, next time I come to Singapore with my mum and then we meet up for dinner. You can hug her personally lah:D

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  66. looks delicious! thanks for submitting this recipe to our #ricelove bloghop! just for future reference, the rice recipes should be made in the month of september. :)

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  67. @Junia
    Thanks for dropping by to let me know:D

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  68. Hi Veron!! Blessed Birthday to you!! Such a great way to celebrate surrounded by so many loved ones. Wishing you all the happiness you can have.

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    1. haha Sharon, sorry to confuse you, I think you overlook the date of this post. It was my last year's birthday party.

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  69. Your birthday? I thought you just celebrated it not too long ago? Gee! How time flies!!! Wowwww!!!! What a grand celebration! The happiness on your face in the photos...and on everybody else's...says it all. A Happy birthday to you and may the coming year be blessed abundantly with lots of smiles and happiness on each and every passing day.

    I love claypot chicken rice. There used to be a nice stall here but unfortunately it has been discontinued. Maybe I can follow your recipe and try and cook my own.

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    1. Arthur, where got birthday again so fast? This one last year's birthday post lah! My birthday still a long way to go. Yes do try my mum's recipe. YUM! YUM!

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