Sunday, December 11, 2011

A Family Christmas tradition

Before I met my Quay Lo, Christmas to me was party time. Every Christmas eve was spent in our favorite Country Western Pub. We would party till the wee hours and dance, and laugh the night away. After I met my Quay Lo, Christmas became all about spending time at home with the family. When our son, Nicholas was a little boy, on Christmas Eve we would have a light dinner and usually watch a Christmas movie together. Before we sent him to bed early, he and Stitch (my Quay Lo) would put cookies and a glass of milk on the coffee table in the living hall. My Quay Lo would read the "Night Before Christmas" to him, from a beautiful illustrated copy that he had bought especially for Nick. Then off to bed, warning him to never try to peek or come downstairs early, or he might scare Santa away.




Then Stitch (my Quay Lo) would put on some nice Christmas music and we would fill Nick's Christmas stocking and put all his Christmas gifts under the tree. My Quay Lo would take a bite from a cookie so that when Nicholas awoke on Christmas day, he would believe that Santa had visited our home. This was practised till the time when Nicholas was old enough to know that the Big Santa was actually his Dad which he remembers was not until Nick was age 10. He once told me that in the U.S. kids lose their faith in a Santa at a very early age. He thought that they did so because of of too much sharing of information about such things as children's fables and that kids there were too eager to show that they were grown up. We both agreed that was a loss for them. The excitement in Nick just grew and grew as Christmas approached. Stich said that when he was younger the common belief in Santa was held longer and to see Nick get so excited was a pleasure. 


The Davis's family had a Christmas tradition. According to my Quay Lo, my late father-in-law loved chocolate covered cherries. 

My late father-in-law with my Quay Lo having at an arm wrestle

Stitch remembered that during Christmas's as a boy, his father, who was a busy executive in the construction and  architectural woodwork trade, often came home with gifts he received from associates. He specifically remembered bottles of whiskey, a hamper of huge red apples, and a smoked ham. One year his father brought home a fancy box of chocolates. I am going to ask my Quay Lo to tell the story.

"My Dad would put those chocolates on a high shelf over the fridge and tell us to never eat them unless he gave them to us. I thought they must be very special. Now and then, after dinner, he would take down the box and let us each pick the one we wanted. It seemed like such a special treat. They were of course. But these treats were also a mystery, because we never knew what we would get when we picked one. We would excitedly share with each other what we picked, and thus determine who the winner of the "chocolate lottery" was. All of us kids loved the vanilla filling. Nuts were ok, but inferior to soft fillings. Candied orange peel was like a punishment, often sending one of us back to Dad to whine and ask for another pick. During the selection process I noticed that sometimes one of us would point to one, and my Dad would say no,  explaining that one was his. I remember wondering what was inside.  Eventually I asked him, and told me that it was filled with a cherry."

So, when my Quay Lo was 11 years old and he was earning some money delivering newspapers, he saved up enough money to buy Christmas gifts. The prospect of doing so excited him. So I'll let him tell the rest of the story:

"One day I was at Woolworth's and they had a candy counter. On a corner was a big stack of "Brach's chocolate covered cherries". I thought they would be way too expensive but got up the nerve to ask anyway. I was surprised that they only cost $3.00 per box. I quickly paid for them and ran home to wrap them up. I was very excited to present the chocolates to my Dad on Christmas Day. I kept the tradition of giving him chocolate covered cherries as long as he was with us. As the years advanced I switched from "Brach's" brand as I became more aware that they were an inferior chocolate. But I never missed a year. It was only later that my mother told me that the reason my Dad kept the cherry centered candies for himself was because they were filled with cherries and kirsch, the cherry flavored licqour."

When my Quay Lo was still living in the U.S., his daughter Erin would buy him a box of chocolate covered cherries every Christmas, continuing the tradition. There was one year in the past, during Christmas time, she sent her Dad a box of chocolate covered cherries from US and when it arrived at our home, they were almost all melted from our tropical heat.  We laughed as we scooped out the muddle of cherries and chocolate, and searched for the few that remained whole. I think Stitch later suggested to Erin not to send them again because they would not survive. Unfortunately to get good chocolate covered cherries in Kuala Lumpur is like looking for a needle in the sea. We had them a couple of times when we found them in Singapore. So this year, I thought I would carry on the tradition by making them at home. This is especially made for my Quay Lo with lots of love.


What I like about this recipe is that the cherries were first filled with vanilla sugar before dipping into the dark chocolate to be covered. Can you imagine how divine it is to have the sweetness of the sugar and the flavor of vanilla infused into the cherries (as if cherries were not good enough,) then covered in dark semi sweet chocolate too? YUMMY!! When I tasted one, I now understand why the Quay Los like to say when they eat something very delicious, "I think I died and went to heaven already!"

Chocolate covered Cherries
Adapted from Barry with modification
Yield 18 cherries 






Ingredients:
¼ cup white sugar
2 tsp vanilla extract
4 ounces semisweet chocolate, chopped
18 cherries with stems

Method:
Pour the sugar into a shallow dish. Drop two drops of vanilla at a time into the dish in 16 separate places to form lumps of vanilla sugar. Set aside to allow the lumps to harden. Pit the cherries carefully from the bottom. I use a long thick needle. Make sure the stem stays intact. When the lumps of sugar have hardened, insert them into the cherries where the pits were; set aside. Melt chocolate in the microwave, stirring every 30 seconds until melted and smooth. Hold cherries by the stem and dip into the chocolate. Set on waxed paper to dry. Refrigerate overnight to allow the sugar lumps to dissolve inside the cherries and for the chocolate to harden.



I am submitting this to the Christmas Giveaway in The Sweet Spot

44 comments:

  1. When I was young, I was a party animal like you and Christmas or any other special occasion would be great excuses to party the night away...and being from a Christian family, we would have open houses like Chinese New Year or Hari Raya...and I would help my mum as she baked the cakes and cookies. We had a Christmas tree with branches like milk bottle brushes... Ah! So many memories.

    These days, I would probably host a simple dinner and invite close friends and to come and eat and chat...and I would go to church. That's about it.

    Good of you to keep making those chocolate coated cherries for your Quay Lo. Good traditional practices should always be preserved and cherished...

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  2. What a lovely post ;) There are loads of cherries again at the market ( & I thought cherries season is over :P ) and your post just gave me an idea to make that choco-covered cherries if I could resist eating the luscious cherries , that is :D

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  3. Thanks for sharing such a lovely story and yummy recipe. Its good to continue our family tradition.

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  4. My 1st taste of those alcohol filled Chocolate was when my mom's boss gave us a bar of it.

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  5. What a lovely story..and the cherries look gorgeous.

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  6. I'm sure your Quay Lo knows that his best Christmas present is YOU. You are so thoughtful of others and it looks like you've married one who is just the same as you ... a perfect pair. God's gift to each other, don't you think?
    Well now, isn't that so much better than having to scrape off unrecognizable bits from the box? Those chocolate cherries look lovely!

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  7. Choc covered cherries, what a great idea esp in Oz when cherries are now in season. My girls do the same too (incl the 12 year old) - placing a glass of milk and cookies out for santa as well as carrots for the reindeers. One year I created santa and reindeer footprints by the door using plain flour and a template. It's moments like this that makes Christmas special.

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  8. An excellent post and a really nice recipe - my husband loves chocolate covered cherries. He may well find himself the lucky recipient of a batch made to your recipe. Thank you.

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  9. Christmas to me has always been a family affair. It is going to be strange this year just the two of us!!
    Fantastic post and I love those chocolate cherries. Diane

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  10. I love cherries and choc - covered, yum! Quay Lo's stories can be retold again and again each Christmas- lovely memories. Happy Christmas to you and your family.

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  11. This was to be the first year that I wasn't going to buy my mom chocolate covered cherries because she was diagnosed with diabetes. Now that I have this recipe, I may be able to continue giving them to her! Many thanks for a heartwarming story and this fantastic recipe.

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  12. What a lovely story & what a great yet simple recipe. Love to try it!

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  13. wow,Its so fantastic and wounder full. I read and really impressed from your informative article.Its related to realty of Love and family and home.Its helpful for all world people.I like and shared with my friends.. Thank you for submitted...

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  14. what a wonderful story to reminisce about. you are a wonderful story teller and i've enjoyed reading your posts. you share a lot of your personal emotions in them. may you always have your love ones with you and have a blessed christmas and new year.

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  15. When I was young, my family never celebrated Christmas at all.. we were not christians but I remember sending christmas cards to my friends.. now my family are all christians, each year we have a good makan in my mother's house.. but chinese dishes la.. none of us know how to cook western food.. :)

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  16. Every year when it approaches Christmas Day, I get asked where I will going to party. When I tell them I will be spending Xmas at home with my family, they (my Malaysian friends) find it very bizarre! But Christmas for me has always been about spending time (and eating good food) with the family.

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  17. What a marvelous family tradition! Your photos are stunning...and those chocolate covered cherries look amazing and delicious!!!!

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  18. They look delicious. Thanks for sharing a treasured Christmas memory and reminding us that is the little things that count the most.

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  19. This post is so sweet and lovely. Love the tradition of giving dad a box of chocolate covered cherries. My two girls still believed in the existence of Santa. They sometiems showed me things and said, "Mum, this was a gift from Santa last year.....this one was last 2 years....etc". So cute.

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  20. I like the idea of putting vanilla sugar in the cherry! Love your story too...I always enjoy reading your posts! Beautiful photos!

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  21. My sister in law told her daughter Santa wasn't real when her daughter turned 7 because she felt my niece was "too old." So sad!

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  22. Such a sweet post and I love the on-going tradition. My girl still believes in Santa and she has been behaving quite well nowadays, otherwise Santa won't be coming to deliver present for her :)

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  24. this is a sweet post! we wish we can hide the present from my son and make him believe the gift is from Santa also :)

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  25. So sweet... the story plus the chocolate covered cherries :) Bet my kids will be jumping with joy with " The Night Before Christmas " story and the presents from Santa the next day. :D

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  26. Before marriage, we spent our Christmas in pub, karaoke lounge or cafe. Now with kids, we prefer to stay at home or have a nice and quiet dinner with the loved one. Merry Christmas in advance, dear.

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  27. What a treat to read this post, Quay Po! I loved hearing your traditions and stories and family memories -- so special. Thank you for sharing them and also for sharing this exquisite recipe!

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  28. What a fabulous sharing... I always did chocolate covered strawberries but now I have another fruit to cover in chocolate.... :0)

    And you even made pretty leaves for it... aw....

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  29. So my dear Veron was a disco queen! I used to disco a lot too during my "flying" days with SQ. Lol! Havoc eh??

    What a beautiful X'mas tradition! I believe in Santa too. When I was young & even now. Hahaha!

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  30. Nice! I think I am so not ready for Christmas Gift but I am ready for Christmas Feast!! :D

    And Christmas Beer XD

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  31. you are really a good storyteller. Your stories are always so heartfelt and I enjoy reading them. and that recipe. you are a quay po that can do anything huh? hehe

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  32. Dear Quay Po,

    This post is SERIOUSLY awesome. I enjoyed reading every word of it! So heart-warming to hear of you and your family's memories of Christmas. Really tugs a sentimental string! Love when food is associated with that as well and preparing them each year becomes a treasured tradition. Anyway, I love this recipe. Think it will be a hit amongst friends and family, so fun too! I started youtubing "how to pit a cherry" right after reading this lol. Your table setting is so festive and beautiful too. Merry Christmas to you and your family! =)

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  33. Hi Veronica aka QPC! I enjoyed every bit of your illustration too. Christmas to me is still magical even though we know that Santa is fiction. Nevertheless, that won't stop us believing in the season of giving and forgiving. I love these dark cherries and by dipping them in chocolate is a double sin. Delish!! Simple and satisfying.. Have a wonderful Christmas and New Year!! Hugggss, Jo

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  34. your quay lo very pandai, i would have never thought of biting that cookie to 'prove' that santa had come..i must go around and ask some kids their belief in the existence of santa, sure there must be some interesting stories to hear! i believe these choc covered cherries have marked a place in all of your hearts during this time of the year! have a lovely evening, veron!

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  35. Those are just lovely...and much better than what passes for commercial chocolate-covered cherries!

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  36. lovely pictures colourful post and dessert
    happy holidays

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  37. @suituapui
    Looks like there are a lot of us are party animals when we were young. You said "I would help my mum as she baked the cakes and cookies" So did Santa gave you a BIG Christmas gift every year for being such a good boy? There is no doubt as age catching up, we do not like crowded places but rather spend time with close friends and family especially on festive season. However, for this Quay Po, if my Quay Lo wants to take me to a Disco, I will not say NO. hehe

    @anne
    Yes, I am with you, it is hard to resist those cherries, in fact, I am suppose to do 24 cherries but I did only 18. Do I need to explain further? hehe

    @搵到食
    You are very welcome.

    @Small Kucing
    My cherries were not filled with alcohol but vanilla sugar. Small Kucing can eat lots of the them:D

    @Sharon
    Thanks Sharon.

    @ping
    Thanks for your kind comment regarding Quay Lo and I:D Quay Lo always tell me I am his best Christmas present too but then when time that I get him on his nerves, I think I am his biggest nightmare!! Wonder when he is going to tell me that! hahaha I totally agree with you that homemade chocolate covered cherries are definitely more delicious compared to store bought since we are generous with usage of good quality chocolate.

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  38. @Christine
    Thank you.

    @Charmaine
    How clever of you to do those footprints. I guess I must remember to do that for my grandkids when the time comes. You are right, all the magical moments make Christmas special.

    @Elaine
    Oh I am sure your hubby will be very happy.

    @Diana
    Turn this year into a Romantic Christmas for yourself.

    @Keats
    Merry Christmas to you and your family too.

    @The Mom Chef
    I am sorry your mum was diagnosed with diabetes. I guess take one choc covered cherries during Christmas may not do much harm to her.

    @Faeez
    Thank you so much for your following. I hope you enjoy yourself here and please know your comment means a lot to me. Hope to see you around often. After you try this recipe, do hop over to leave your feedback.:D

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  39. @johni
    Thank you for dropping by and leave your comment but I don't understand about the submission.

    @petite nyonya
    You too have a blessed Christmas and Happy New Year my dear:D

    @reanaclaire
    What kind of dish is not that important, what is important is the family spend time together.

    @Baby Sumo
    I think I am not surprise that your Malaysian friends find it bizarre not to go party at Christmas time. That was my reaction too spending the first Christmas at home:D

    @Lizzy
    Thank you.

    @Kitchen Gypsies
    You are welcome.

    @Sheoh Yan
    Please let your girls believe in Santa as long as they can.

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  40. @To Food With Love
    Thank you.

    @That Girl
    Yeah, that is sad.

    @yvonne
    Keep her believing in Santa as long as you can.

    @Ambiitious Food Lover
    Thank you for your invitation to share my blog at your space. I will hop over soon.

    @Ah Tze
    I am sure you can, hide them in your car booth:D That is what we did when Nick still believe in Santa.

    @Belly Good Cooking
    I am sure your kids will flip!

    @Rose
    Merry Christmas to you too. I guess that is quite usual with the change of scenery once we have kids.

    @Loveforfood
    Thanks for dropping by. Hope to see you again.

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  41. @alittlelunch
    You are welcome. I am like you I love reading stories about family traditions too.

    @Food Dreams
    That is an idea for me, I think I will do some choc covered strawberries too. I made the leaves for photo taking so that it enhance the look of choc covered cherries. Actually I am not suppose to cover the whole cherry, I should leave the top uncovered but I made mistake hehe

    @Shirley
    Ya, me too, me too hehe

    @Carolyn
    I am so glad that you love reading my stories. I enjoy reading yours. sama sama hehe

    @Winston
    Merry Christmas to you, so are you going home to spend Christmas with your family? Hey if you have a link on how to pit the cherries, let me have it. I pitted those cherries with a big long needle but I would love to know a better way to do it.

    @Chic and Gorgeoous Treats
    Thanks dear, you too have a swell Christmas and Happy New Year. HUGS.

    @lena
    hahaha, I guess Quay Lo learned that from his Dad. Ya, it will be fun to ask the kids about their belief in Santa. I am sure you will get some interesting and hilarious answers.

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  42. @Cucina49
    Yes I have to say they taste much better than store bought.

    @Torviewtoronto
    Thanks and Happy holidays to you too.

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